
Children need to be able to understand the world around them and to express their thoughts about that world. Both expressive and receptive language development are crucial for proper communication and interaction with others.
Expressive language is what a child can communicate verbally or via alternative methods of expressions such as sign language or picture symbols.
Receptive language is what a child can understand that is said to them.
If a child has difficulty following directions, answering questions, joining a conversation or understanding gestures, they may have an expressive or receptive language development delay.
They may become frustrated at attempting to get others to understand.
They may have difficulty participating in group activities or understanding compromises.
They may have trouble completing tasks.
There are some easy ways to support a child’s language development to ensure that they can interact with the world around them and feel confident in doing so.
Reading to a child develops language skills in a way few other activities can. It also creates a special bond between the storyteller and the child, and it exercises both expressive and receptive language.
Take a book that has no words and ask the child to make up a story from what they see, or model language by telling your own story.
Begin by telling a little about what is on the page, then ask the child to continue the story. Our free feelings resource can give you ideas to talk about. Be sure to give them support if they get stuck.
Show the child picture flashcards you think they would be interested in. Talk about the pictures, and if they give you vague answers like “It’s a dog,” fill in the details for them: “It’s a big dog.”
Don’t have any flashcards handy? The app Describe It to Me turns practicing this skill into a fun game show.
Children love to know things, so let them be the teacher for a while. Pretend you are their robot and can only do what you are told. The goal of the game is to get the child to explain to you how to do things.
Take 3 to 5 pictures of the child doing an activity, like putting on their shoes or washing their hands. Print the pictures and ask the child to put them in the order they happened. This is easier than sequencing random events, because they experienced the activity and can rely on memory.
Not big on scissors and glue? The iPad app GoSequencing has 50 built-in real-life sequences, and you can make your own with your own photos.
Children with expressive or receptive language delays often engage with puppets when they are reluctant to communicate with people. Many become eager to talk to puppets and are much more likely to express themselves and listen as the puppets talk with them.
One fun yet functional resource for expressive and receptive language is the app Fun & Functional. The child guesses the purpose of an object, then learns its name and says what they know about it.
Have fun with it, adjust to your child’s level, and don’t overcorrect: you want to encourage the process, not just the result.
Who knows? You might find that once children begin talking, they never seem to stop.
50 real-life sequences, plus your own photos, for sequencing and retelling practice.

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